I should have gotten back to this sooner. Thanks for those who provided advice.
Short answer on the meal at Nine: Great company, a great night, but the food, service and room did nothing for me.
Nine seemed too bright. It felt like somebody's basement in the 1970s. The service was good but had that too familiar feel that I really don't like. I want the waiter to be a professional and not my buddy.
We started out with two appetizers. One was crab (long overcooked) over a mixture that included corn. Completely forgettable. The second was the things that look like ice cream cones stuffed with tuna. Nice, but it gets a zero rating for creative. I had a similar dish five years ago at Spago Maui and even then thought it lacked creativity. For what it is worth, the taste was decent.
My wife and I both had steaks. I don't recall which I chose, but I found it disappointing. I prefer steaks that have a bit of crust, but then are less cooked inside. This steak was cooked uniformily, and somewhat overcooked. It just was not what I expect from a medium rare steak. I routinely do a far better job of cooking steaks on my stove. My wife had a steak that featured some cheese (gorgonzola?). It was better than mine, and was cooked properly, but it was good but not great.
Due to the reason for the event (an early Father's Day dinner), my wife and I had a great time that evening, but I sure will not return to Nine.