sflinn, Welcome to LTH! I'd love to be helpful, but maybe you could give us more information about the group, such as age, hipness level, food preferences/aversions. What are some places that you have been that you like, but would not want for this occasion since you have already been there? Is it a festive brasserie atmosphere you want or are you looking for something more intimate where conversation with the whole group is possible? Is BYOB a plus for you? Is it important that the place be new and cutting edge--Otom's presence on the list might suggest that. There are so many good places it's hard to help without more information.
Man : I can't understand how a poet like you can eat that stuff.
T. S. Eliot: Ah, but you're not a poet.