Thank you for the ideas; I wouldn't have thought of several of these.
Steak is definitely out. Nothing wrong with sides as an option, but I'd prefer to provide a list that allows her more choice than that.*
Anteprima sounds lovely. Green Zebra was also recommended by a friend. The Francesca restaurants are a good alternative if location is important. We seem to have several good Italian options now, which is wonderful.
I keep thinking something else must have options for a vegetarian...taking Asian out of the mix makes this a bit more difficult! And, adding in that they do not like loud places makes it even more challenging.
What about Middle Eastern? Not sure her parents would like it, but it might work. French Bistro and Greek also seem tough for the vegetarian to get more then sides.*
*I occasionally love eating sides for dinner. In fact, I often prefer having two or three sides to eat and an appetizer instead of an entree. But, often people who are vegetarian are forced into this option and it is different than having the option of doing it. I want to provide her a list of places I know she can eat an entree if she chooses...if she wants sides, cool. But, she has the option of feeling included.