In response to question #2: call the restaurant (or show up in person) to set it up in advance, then call again a bit before the reservation to confirm that it's all setup, then call again the evening of the reservation to reconfirm that it's all setup.
The reason I recommend calling so many times to make sure everything is setup & that the restaurant is well aware of your plan is that, 8 months after our wedding, my wife took me to Alinea for my birthday. Some very good friends of our caught wind of our impending dinner, and hatched a plan of their own - after our meal, the bill folio would be delivered to us. Inside, instead of the bill, would be a card with a message saying something along the lines of "
We hope you enjoyed our wedding gift to you! Love, Your Friends". How cool is that?! Alinea told them, "No problem, it would be our pleasure", so our friends went down there a week beforehand and gave them the greeting card and their credit card info.
The night of our reservation, we went, enjoyed a magnificent meal, and at the end, we were presented with...our bill, which we happily paid. A week later, we saw our friends, and they asked us (with sly grins), "So, how was Alinea?" And my wife & I both answered, "It was great...why?" They then realized that their plan had failed. A week after that, they presented us with the original greeting card - after stopping by at Alinea to pick it up and give them a piece of their minds - and a very generous Chopping Block gift card.
Moral of the story: You might want to consider just buying your parents a $300 gift certificate to whatever restaurant you end up choosing. Or a Chopping Block gift card - we loved ours.
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Khaopaat on August 26th, 2010, 8:20 am, edited 1 time in total.