MAG wrote:I grew up in New York and this uninformed garbage is what leads my relatives to say things like, 'Well, of course, Melissa likes Chicago, she doesn't really like big cities."
Melissa:
I too grew up near and in Manhattan, all within a few miles of Times Square (living on both sides of the Hudson) and all my relatives still live back there. I find that, aside from the inevitable jokes and taunts and the genuine sense of being from the centre of the universe,* the vast majority of real (Metro-)New Yorkers I know really like Chicago and praise it mightily once they get out here a bit; they recognise it as a real city, marvel at how much more liveable it is in many ways and are fascinated and/or amused by how what sometimes looks so familiar can be so different.
But then there are the super-New Yorkers, the sort who have to make the tired jokes about 'Long Guyland' and 'Joysey' (the places to which most non-wealthy New Yorkers end up moving at some point) and always need to take a haughty posture toward rube-filled places like Chicago or places that are not to be taken seriously, like L.A.
Well, over the years, I've discerned a pattern: the majority of these 'hyper-New Yorkers' aren't from New York.** They're almost always from places no native New Yorker could find on a map (even the older ones)... genuine rubes, not because of where they're from but for how they think...
And, to address chowist focus, could anyone give more details on Green Zebra or links to available reports? (I refuse to read the New York Times... an old grudge...)...
Antonius
* I confess, I still have a sense of being from there that interferes with the feeling of being a Chicagoan, despite 15 years here and the great affection and respect I have for this city... What's born in the blood can't be beat out of the bone, as my grandmother from "the City" used to say...
** There are exceptions, many of whom are media stars who like to play up the chic of being a New Yorker at the expense of the rest of the world. But even amongst them are many non-New Yorkers... Of course Woody Allen is a native but the vast majority of the people that have appeared on Saturday Night Live, which for long years wallowed in the infantile Long-Guyland and Joysey humour were imports from elsewhere, trying, I suppose, to be thought of as New Yorkers by virtue of their posture.
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This is an addition after the original post:
I don't mean to imply that "New Yorkers who act like jerks" are all not from New York and ergo there are no jerky New Yorkers. I just mean to call attention to the fact that, despite their local pride and even chauvinism, most New Yorkers I've known really like Chicago if they get to know it at all (and I think that comes in at least part from the fact that they appreciate real urbanity, and this city is a real
urbs in horto). The attitude "New York is da best -- everything else is the barbarian hinterland" is found among some New Yorkers but also commonly among -- and is expressed especially vociferously by -- what seem to be New Yorker wanna-bes.
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Antonius on August 4th, 2004, 10:57 am, edited 1 time in total.
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