Thanks for the kind words, Tom. The only problem with Nelly's was that the volume on the sound was not loud enough. We had a good time anyway.
Improv Kitchen seems to have a set up where the videos could be shown at the table, but you would have to work it out for an off night, and order off the menu, most likely. Fox & Obel does movie nights on the roof, I believe, and you could put together something from the deli and catering menu.
Actually, I am a bit surprised that this is a challenge, given how many establishments seem to be bent on
ruining their restaurants with TV. It seems like almost everywhere has some kind of blaring screen these days.
If you want to do the pot luck thing, perhaps your best bet is to rent a space in a community center or church, where they may also have a kitchen to use. A friend of mine had a pot-luck wedding breakfast at the Lake Street Church in Evanston, where she rented a hall and the kitchen for a very nominal fee.
Alternatively, you might approach the owner of a small place where you are a regular. I've found that business people can be incredibly generous toward their regular customers -- it's just good business.
Man : I can't understand how a poet like you can eat that stuff.
T. S. Eliot: Ah, but you're not a poet.