Just dropping by LTH after a long, long time away and saw this thread about my new hometown. I've been in N.O. since last November, and I'm loving every minute. Read through the suggestions and I have a few to add/subtract.
Ix-nay on Mandina's. The neighborhood vibe is still the same, but the food has gone downhill.
Camellia Grill -- all depends on how you feel about standing in line. Unless you go early on the weekend, the line snakes out the door, and IMO, is not worth the wait. It IS a fun experience (unless you or your kind have a low blood sugar meltdown from the wait), but make sure you time it right. Weekday breakfast or pre-noon, post-1 p.m. lunch is best.
Acme, Felixes...meh. They're conveniently located and serve good food, but Casamento's is definitely the place to go for oysters, softshells and a local feel. They close for the summer, and just reopened about a week or so ago. On a side note, it warms the heart to see an "out-of-towner" (albeit one known for his foodishness) so gung-ho about eating Gulf seafood. Oysters are more expensive at $10-$12/dozen (although still laughably cheap compared to, say, Shaw's) and some restaurants have taken them off the menu because the supply has taken a beating. If you see 'em, eat 'em.
Willie Mae's is another one I'd take or leave. It's an institution and the chicken is good, but it's not the place I'd send someone with a limited number of meals in town to.
Commander's over Galatoire's -- the "rowdy downstairs" action is definitely more adult- than kid-friendly, and it's unlikely they'd seat you downstairs with a kid. Tory McPhail at Commander's is a rockstar chef, and you'll never forget the experience of eating there. (Not that this has any bearing on my recommendation, but a funny side note: a gun went off in Galatoire's today -- lady dropped her purse in the foyer of the restaurant, and the gun she was packing went off. Who brings heat to Galatoire's?)
I have the biggest crush on Cochon Butcher right now. I like Cochon, but if you're having your blow-out, sit-down meals elsewhere, I say go for Butcher. I love their Cuban, if the banh mi is on the menu GET IT, duck pastrami sliders are over-the-top, muffuletta is righteous (although I know some people who think their olive salad is weak)
If you do end up at the WWII museum, you can hit
American Sector (a John Besh restaurant) for lunch.
I lean to Parkway for po'boys, but po'boys are a religion down here -- everyone has their own belief. The roast beef po'boy at Parasol's is excellent, but there was a recent ownership change and the bar/restaurant is temporarily closed. The guy who ran Parasol's for the last 12 years (and pretty much resurrected the place after years of neglect) just opened a bar/restaurant up the street on Magazine called Tracey's -- same staff, same legendary roast beef po'boy.
I'm not sure why MiLa at the Pere Marquette Hotel isn't on the radar more, and this might not fit the bill for dinner with the kiddo, but they have a $20, 3-course lunch menu that is outstanding. Dinner is even better. It's nouvelle southern -- the husband/wife chefs are from MS and LA, and they both have impressive resumes/background.
I seem to remember you're a beer guy. If you find yourself in the Lower Garden District on St. Charles, the Avenue Pub (1732 St. Charles) has a knock-out selection, and the kitchen cranks out seriously good pub eats. (Think: Paramount Room) I ate a duck sammich there the other day, and washed it down with an Octoberfest beer. Tasty.
And for the kid...while you're strolling around the FQ, take the her to Meltdown Popsicles (508 Dumaine) for a gourmet pop. City Park is a great place to take her, too -- playground, Storyland, little choo-choo ride around the park. And it's on the side of town where Parkway Bakery is. Just sayin'...
This is usually where I PM a food friend my cell number and offer my bail-out services (as in, 'if you get arrested or you're too drunk to find your way to the hotel, call me'), but I take it the family vacation won't involve such debauchery. I'll send it to you anyway...you never know.