I took everyone's advice, bought some frozen at the meat market, which i defrosted overnight in the fridge, and they turned out perfectly.
i browned the hell out of them, then braised them in a chilean cab sauv and stock, with some rosemary, and a base of mirepoix and bay leaves, and, once the meat was falling off the bone and the broth was milky with marrow (is there anything better than lifting the bone from the broth to see hollow where once was solid?), i took them out, slathered them in dijon and a gorgonzola paste, and roasted them. (this latter touch was gleaned, i must admit with a little sheepishness, from a man who says "Bam" and whose name is not john madden).
accompanied with a mushroom and thyme risotto.
thanks, all.
i think it went over well with the lady too. of course, in a momentary lapse of reason and/or sobriety, we gave both bones to the dog, who is more akin to a rat, and whose stomach was not quite up to the task. the lady is airing out the couch cushions on her porch as i write this.