As you can tell from my username, I was born in India. I never learned to cook while growing up but had to do it to stay vegetarian once I came here. When I came here I could barely boil water, but ever so slowly I have become a decent home cook; good enough that my family actually wants me to cook when we get together or I visit. I learned slowly and these are the books I have that I used/use regularly. Two caveats. I am a vegetarian, so I have
no idea of meat cookery (except for that one time I made Lamb Biryani for my ex-Wife for her birthday). These recommendations are from a vegetarian perspective. Secondly, I grew up in Hyderabad, so I am used to really, really hot food. For me, if my bald head is not sweating, the food is not spiced right.
Madhur Jaffrey -
Invitation to Indian Cooking: This book is GREAT. Her recipes for Potatoes and Okra in the Delhi style are fantastic. In fact, all her North Indian recipes are great. I have been using this book for 20 years and she has never disappointed me. Especially the Okra recipe. I have made fans of people who say they hate Okra with this.
Chandra Padmanabhan:
Dakshin. Hands down the BEST book on TamBram vegetarian cooking. This is the food I grew up with and I am telling you; this book is absolutely authentic. Just a terrific, terrific book. The book title is, of course, a misnomer. It is essentially TamBram (Tamilian Brahmin) cooking. But whenever I crave anything from my childhood, this is the book I cook from. Everything I have made from this, which is pretty much the whole book; has tasted really authentic.
Raghavan Iyer:
660 Curries. This is not a comprehensive book and is only a book of Curries. It does not have any sections on Rice, Breads, Chutneys, Pickles, Sweets etc., but it does have reliably authentic Curry recipes from all over India, even some from outside India (like Sri Lanka and Nepal). But it has become my go to book for making curries. It is really massive. If I am bored with any of my other go to recipes for any reason, this book always gives me a new version to try. Like recently I wanted to make a Potao/Chickpea curry but did not want to make the same old thing again. I tried his version of this curry in the "PINDI" style. I was blown away. Street food from Rawalpindi that was so different from what I usually make. That is why I LOVE this book. Just by using subtly different spices, I end up with something that tastes completely different from whatever I was used to making. This is not a beginners book though. You do have to have some knowledge of Indian cooking to make good use of this book.
I obviously have not tried the meat recipes from Jaffrey or Iyer's books. But the vegetarian recipes I have tried are so good, that I am sure the meat recipes are equally good, if not better. Although I have other books that I am going to list now, I do not use them as often as the three I mentioned so far. But these books are also good. I just do not cook from them often.
Julie Sahni :
Classic Indian Grain and Vegetarian Cooking. I just do not cook from this often.
Jigyasa Giri and Pratibha Jain:
Cooking with Pedatha: Really good collection of Andhra Recipes. I have cooked about 10 things from here but I like TamBram cooking better. But the recipes are really authentic Andhra food. Reminds me of eating at my friends' house.
Chandra Padmanabhan:
Southern Flavors: I have not cooked a lot from this yet. But it has a collection from all over the south. I think this will end up replacing Dakshin soon. I like the idea of using similar spices and ending up with totally different end product by varying the method of cooking. I just have not used it enough to recommend it, but I am sure it will be my go to book for Southie dishes soon.
Vedavalli Venkatachari:
LIFCO How to Cook: This little book was what my mom sent me when I called her begging to send me something as I was DYING from my bad cooking at the beginning. Dakshin has replaced it now, but I have fond memories cooking from this little book. Frankly it is falling apart, and it smells BAD. But I cannot get myself to throw it away. Now that my mom has passed away, I do not think I will ever get rid of this book.
I also second the recommendation for
Anupy Singla's
Indian Slow Cooker book. I gave it away, along with my HUGE crockpot to someone of the Forum recently. The food does not turn out 100% authentic, but for the effort you put in, which is nothing; the results are fantastic. I hope the guy who took the book and the crockpot from me is making better use of it than I. It just makes a LOT of food for one person.
Hope this helps. Oh, btw; for all Indian recipes; check out the
http://VahreVah.com website to get an idea of how the dish should turn out. The Chef on that site, Sanjay Thumma, does a FANTASTIC job explaining things on the videos. He used to have the restaurant Sizzle on Devon; oh those many years ago.