That's funny that this came up now. Just this morning, I was looking to buy some stone ground grits and cornmeal for an upcoming dinner. I didn't even try to find them around here (I'm aware that Bob's Red Mill has products all over, but I was looking to try something else). I considered ordering from Anson Mills, but found their prices a bit precious.
After scouring LTH, I found an erstwhile mention of
McEwen & Son's in Wilsonville, AL and placed my order there.
Cathy2 mentioned a similar phenomenon -
a dearth of grits at various stops in Mississippi. In 2007.
In the process, I found a number of Southern purveyors mentioned here on LTH and elsewhere:
Food for the Soul aka Charleston Favorites
Weisenberger Mills of Midway, KY
Geechie Boy Mill of Edisto, SC (it was reported that these are also available in the freezer at PQM and they are definitely sold on Amazon)
Somewhere along the way, someone linked to a
2005 Tribune article which listed several more sources:
Falls Mill in in Belvedere, TN
Lakeside Mills in Spindale, NC
Nora Mill Granary in Helen, GA
Old Mill of Guilford in Oak Ridge, NC
Discussion here also led me to see that Baker Miller in Lincoln Square sell stone ground grits and cornmeal from local corn that people seemed to like. But I called them and while they said they usually have this to purchase, they were out right now and to check back later in the week.
Anyway, none of this is to undercut Ava's original point. Maybe these are not as readily available at your everyday grocery in the South as they may have been in the past. There seems to be no shortage of places that are still producing and selling stone-ground corn products, but it is done on a more artisanal basis with a premium markup or these seemingly throwback products are being produced in the historical context of a preserved mill.
In any case, maybe grits aren't quite the staples they had been - even in parts for the country where they were regularly eaten. Then again, I could be totally off-base. I could certainly see a dip in popularity of any grain that might take hours to prepare like I have read that the stone-ground variety might.
After all the research, I'm interested in playing around with them after learning some of the history.