leek wrote:And this makes it difficult for those of us who are truly allergic. Just a week ago, I said "I am allergic to mushrooms, I would like to know if there are any mushrooms in this dish" and the guy went back into the kitchen, asked someone, and reassured me that there were none.
I hate hearing this story. While it's true that there are hypochondriacs, and there are people who use food allergy as a cover for OCD, it's also true that people have food allergies! Therefore, the only proper response when someone tells you he has one is to reflect in your actions that you take him seriously. Rolling your eyes skyward is perfectly fine, as long as this is done
mentally; your
actions should always be as if the allergy reported is real, whether you believe it or not. (In other words, it doesn't matter what you believe. Keep it the hell to yourself. This is true for friends as well as service people.)
I say this because, for some reason, some "friends" and "loved ones" can have as hard a time taking the food-allergic person seriously as restaurants do. Sad to say, I've known of situations when such a friend will deliberately slip the person something known to contain the allergen, in an effort to "prove" the allergy is a fraud. Or the friend will exult when an allergen consumed in ignorance doesn't provoke an allergic response, when in fact the reason is simply that the amount of allergen in the food wasn't sufficient (thank God) to provoke a response.
Can a person who self-delusionally claims food allergies where none exist be irritating? Yes. Can a person who serves an allergen to a person with food allergies be irritating? Unfortunately, the resulting medical crisis can be more serious than that.
The waitress and kitchen at Scylla on a recent visit were a model of how a restaurant
should respond when I informed them of my allergy to walnuts.