It's funny...when I relate to The Wife the broad outlines of the political infighting, backbiting, backstabbing shenanigans one sometimes encounters on this site, she rolls her eyes as though to say, quite clearly, "You people are nuts."
So today, regarding this upcoming gamelan event, she shared with me how the dalang (puppeteer) is somehow angry with the bonang player, how the rebab player is not speaking with the bell person, and how the drummer (more old school, as far as I can tell) is getting testy with Pak Djhoko (kind of the guru of the event, a very kind, placid and all-accepting Javanese man, currently living in our basement and who understands the ways of the American gamelan player, like The Wife).
So to all of those who say "Get a life," I say, "This is it, bro." Getting along, not getting along, but generally playing together in a way that makes the final concert enjoyable. That, it seems to me, more or less, is life (I think).
See you there.
"Don't you ever underestimate the power of a female." Bootsy Collins