Steve Plotnicki wrote:I have found that when I ask for dining advice for myself, I get better advice from people who agree with me, not with you.
Steve...
of course you get better dining advice from people who agree with you. The very fact that they agree with you means they share your tastes, and you theirs. It doesn't mean the people who agree with you are right or more discerning or more knowledgeable, it means they share your opinion of what makes food great. One that, I might add, is
highly subjective.
Steve Plotnicki wrote:And I have also found that the more experienced a diner someone is, the greater the odds that they agree with me not you. So that is the idea behind my dining guide.
Here, in addition to being unbearably condescending, you assume facts not in evidence. If you really think that the big posters here are less experienced diners -- haven't eaten in more places, haven't eaten out more often, haven't sampled a wider variety of the foods the world has to offer -- I think you're sorely mistaken (though neither of us has done an empirical analysis of such). When you speak of experience, you speak of experience within a very narrow genre of food. The one that interests you most. And again, that's fine. But to suggest that having more experience with a certain type of food means you're a more experienced diner period, or that experience outside of high-end restaurants is less valuable, is in my opinion wrong, but it's definitely condescending. Don't fool yourself. OA hasn't cornered the market on experienced diners.
Steve Plotnicki wrote:So you see it really is two different world views. One that wants to inject as much objectivity into the discussion as possible, and another that says that no matter how much circumstantial evidence exists, the baseline of the discussion must always be subjective. So let's agree to disagree.
Not entirely. I don't deny that there's value in experience and that comparisons can't be drawn and that some opinions aren't more informed or intelligent than others. But I feel that when it comes to dining and food, "experience" can take many more forms than you seem to acknowledge. I think you have a very particular view of what makes an experienced and informed diner, and what makes for good food or a good restaurant. It's a view that I think is to your detriment, the detriment of your readers, and the detriment of food enjoyment in general the world over, but it's your view and you're welcome to it.
Steve Plotnicki wrote:But what I don't understand is why you can't tolerate a world view that differs from your own, and why you try to argue it down everytime I articulate it. Since we are never going to agree, why don't you simply ignore what I say?
I can tolerate a world view that differs from mine just fine. What I can't tolerate is when it's stated it in such a condescending, dismissive and rude fashion, particularly when in the company of many of those who you have to know (or else you're profoundly ignorant about this forum) disagree strongly with you. I've had the same discussion that you and I are having now with many others, in a polite and congenial and mutually enjoyable manner. But as they say, it often comes down to tone, and yours, to be both frank and crude, sucks. I don't go to OA and troll about how fine dining is a less soulful type of cuisine and therefore isn't as worthy of interest and praise (partly because I don't believe it, but I hope you take the point), and act as though my view is empirical, unimpeachable fact, because that's just looking for a fight. Yet you come here, to a place that was founded by those who adore the food you dismiss so blithely, and act positively perplexed not only that somebody could disagree with you, but that they don't see the empirical truth of your position. You can't pick a fight in passive aggressive fashion and then act like you've been wronged when you get one. And it's not the opinion. It's you. There are others here who agree with you. But they don't share your tone and attitude.
I understand that your book isn't really about ethnic foods, and that's fine. End of discussion right there. But when you write lines like you did in your book (again, whether that's what you meant or not), take every opportunity to marginalize the skill of the few people who prepare ethnic foods well, and the experience of those for whom is it a passion, and do so here, you're going to get a fight. We've been through this enough times at this point that most of the others have realized it's an exercise in futility and are smart enough to ignore you. That I can't is perhaps my failing. But if you're going to take a dump on our passion, might I suggest you do so with a little more tact?
Steve Plotnicki wrote:Hopefully that is the last post in this part of the discussion. I am sure GAF will agree with me when I say, we will all get more out of a discussion about what's in the book, rather than a discussion about what's not in it.
Well, it wasn't. Sorry. And this won't be either, I'll bet cash money.
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Dmnkly on June 6th, 2011, 9:08 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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