Some really good, deep points brought up by this post, Extramsg, one which will hopefully stimulate some brisk discussion about the culture of dining and the various implications of food, ritual, and art versus craft. I'll start by offering some random thoughts (hmm, a weekly column, anyone out there reading this? The Rabbi's Random Ruminations . . .)
Well, let me start by saying I'm not, and never have been, necessarily opposed to places like Trotter's (or Moto, or ADNY, or French Laundry, or fill in the blank with $100+ per person/chi-chi dining "experience" here). Such places have been around for a long time (though the cuisine has changed quite a bit, going radically in standards over the years from supper club/4 seasons "continental" dishes like Lobster Thermador, Beef Wellington, Duck a L'orange and Baked Alaska to the fusion/small plate/reduction/minimalist/savory dessert and sweet main course world we find today as the height of fine dining) and have usually been countered by the mom-and-pop luncheonette or neighborhood diner, or, for those of us lucky enough to be raised in such environments, the seductive draw of the authentic ethnic eatery (which serves a similar function within the ethnic and immigrant groups of a chosen community, eg, a Chinatown, Little Italy, Little Havana, etc...).
As that famous chef Theodor Adorno pointed out, standards do not exist in a vacuum. One can only claim to be "counterculture", for example, if there is a culture to counter in the first place. Likewise, we can really only appreciate the value and simple goodness of a meal at Hon Kee, Marianao, or LTH if there is a standard (or several levels of standards) which contrast with the expectations and limitations of such humble establishments (indeed, the "Little" in LTH makes this point much more clearly by its usage alone. By the way, Adorno was a great chef, reckoned to make the best chicken chow mein of anyone in the Frankfurt School. He wouldn't butcher the chicken, but rather show it the historical inevitability of its being slaughtered and cooked, and the chicken would invariably accept this thesis and give itself to Adorno's dinner. Unbelievably succulent.) The fact that such restaurants like Trotter's exist is almost an historical inevitability in and of itself. People can (and do) pay $60,000 for a Mercedes or Jaguar while a $15,000 Honda or Ford would more than adequately do the same function; People can (and do) pay upwards of $1500 a month in rent or $250,000 in purchase price for a condo in Lakeview or Lincoln Park (which come with such sturdy porches, too... ahem....) while a residence of equal or larger size with similar amenities would cost them half as much just a couple of miles away; Some people just couldn't imagine flying across the country or to another continent without paying $4000 (as opposed to $500) for a first-class ticket, when, really, every seat is going to the same place and, if you're smart, you're going to have a Xanax or three and a couple of vodka tonics and sleep through the fucking flight anyway.
The point is, market forces, capitalism, disposable incomes, whatever you want to call it (I just call it "money" and move on) have created the perceived desire for restaurants on the highest level possible, which take only the finest, most delicate ingredients and shape them into a presentation of food which aspires to be art, or at least craft at its highest possible level of expression. Really, whether the desire is perceived or not is of little importance - the 4 month waiting list for Trotter's (or however long it is) is concrete proof enough of the desire for such meals. And, really, I have no qualms about indulging periodically in luxury - like Sir Hillary said, "because it's there." I don't have the pockets deep enough to allow me to dine at Tru or Trotter's or Everest or whatever more than a few times a year, and, for that fact, I'm more glad than anything. Just like there's no point in trying to stop a drug addict with access to lots of cash, the rich people in this country who also happen to like fine food (the two seem to go hand in hand) have the world at their fingertips. Maybe the real appreciation of something truly special like a meal at Trotter's (and, for all of my proletarian roots, I do believe that top-end restaurants offer food which is, well, just better, more sensual, and tastier than most kitchens can produce. Of course, I am also not blind to the fact that the $100+ price tag and social cachet of such name establishments subtly leads the mind to believe it is eating the best papyrus-wrapped hot stone roasted squab in a bing cherry, walnut and tobiko sauce with white asparagus tokaj ginger caramel reduction topped with pumpkin, golden raisin and balsamic foamed glaze possible) can only come if one eats humbly and for sustenance and basic good taste (as I think most of us on this board do) most of the time. Just as flying first class once or twice in a lifetime, buying the occasional expensive piece of clothing, indulging in really good drugs or alcohol on holidays or birthdays, and so on are treats which cannot (for monetary reasons) and should not (for the fact that they lose their power through familiarity) be taken in all the time, a fancy meal should be savored, enjoyed, and remembered fondly. Of course, this is not to put down the simple pleasures - that is what they should be - simple, but pleasures nonetheless. They remain pleasures by enjoying the sustenance, warmth, and connection with the earth and with other people that they give us and are simple because they are common and inexpensive. But (and this is what I think Orwell was driving at when he talked about what a home cooked meal can accomplish that a fancy restaurant can never do) it is the care and context of such things, especially food, that are as enjoyable as the items themselves. The piece of shit, 3rd generation station wagon that you lose your virginity in means a whole hell of a lot more than the $65K Porsche you buy when you're trying to recapture your youth. Likewise, the hot bowl of simple noodle soup served up by a friendly face in a quiet Vietnamese cafe on a 20 below night in January has got to be at least as satisfying (if you've got ANY soul, that is) as the 9 course, $150 degustation at Bistro Frou Frou. As long as we know that what we do when we go spend such money on a meal is a once in while indulgence (which, I think, offers a level of food unavailable at home or in any other kind of environment) and not a statement of some sort of lifestyle, we're gonna be OK. Until then, give me line caught reductions, hand harvested glazes, and free range foams, and $2 tacos al pastor and big, heaping portions of beef and chinese broccoli with rice noodles (extra crisp, if you please.) Rebbe over and out.