germuska - I will ignore the shot and move on

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The original, longer version of my post included some extended notes on what I have tried that worked, and what does not. But I guess I should include more of that, so here it is.
Reviewers' projections about when wines will be at their peak are useless for anything that is not at, or close to, its peak today. I find them to routinely project a shorter aging period than applies for all wines except those that really are not suitable for any aging (some whites, tho not as many as you think, and most Zinfandel, IMO). Not sure why, tho I think it is because they so favor bright, fresh fruit and that is lost to some degree with longer aging. Plus, I suppose there is less risk to recommending drinking a wine before its peak, than once it has started to decline.
Whatever the reason, I find the recommendations not at all useful. [Brief aside: since my cellar is a room in my basement, and the temperature is a non-obsessive 63-65 degrees, you would think my wines would age more quickly, if anything. Not really the case it seems.]
So I have gradually gravitated to places where I can find other people's tasting notes, particularly
http://www.CellarTracker.com - free registration last time I was there, and
http://www.winespectator.com which I do subscribe to.
But the challenge is always to find specific, recent, notes on the particular wine I am considering drinking. This is not so easy if one has a small production wine, or if one is aging something that people do not consider age-worthy, both of which do apply in my world. And then, even if I find notes, there is some variation in the quality and information in the notes - people tend to like to emulate the reviewers and give you a score and some floral prose, when all I really want is this: open/closed, bright/fading, balanced/acidic/tannic, and if you drank another bottle before when was that, and how did it compare. Sadly, I have not been able to enforce this discipline in tasting notes, since those who post seem to think the note is also supposed to help them to remember the taste and quality of the wine

. The gall

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So I stumble on, build my own rules of thumb, and as often as not open a bottle way too early, or less often, a bit too late.
The only real solution I have found is to only buy cases, wait an appropriate time and then open a bottle a year until the Eureka moment, finishing the rest in short order. I do not consider this a great solution though I will say my buying has both decreased in frequency, and increased in quantity, so most of the time I do have at least 2 or 3 bottles of everything I buy except the most expensive stuff. And, since about half of my wine purchases are repeats of wines I purchased in earlier vintages, I operate with the dangerous assumption that I have a clue as to how the current vintage might age.
The last time I asked this question on a serious oenophile site, "How do you know when to drink it?" no one even graced me with a reply. I even provided a list of wines - this may have been my problem, since it was a weird, quirky list with no snob appeal. Maybe I broke some board rule...
Rant over.
So I am curious how others do it. And I am particularly curious on specific rules they follow for particular regions, vintages or wines.
One of my extravagances is to be on Paul Hobbs mailing list (by serendipity I got on his mailing list 7 or 8 years ago when his wines were wonderful and a bargain - no more). I buy a small amount of his Chardonnays and age them. 3-5 years gives you a crisper, less fruity experience. Past 5 years, they begin to oxidize, turning a honey color and losing most fruit and oak, but remaining powerful in their way. Past 7, they begin to fade. About 4 or 5 years is probably peak for most people, though I like that cusp at 5.
On the same note, I like buying Byron Chardonnay, and aging it about five years. Slightly oxidized, oak has now melded with the fruit, pretty damned good with food.
That has been the only way I would drink California Chardonnay, but the recent trend away from big buttery stuff probably means I should re-explore.
Not sure if this should not be a separate thread - Aaron?
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