Ever since the Hopleaf first opened, it has been known for service that is not so much rude as it is indifferent. I have often wondered if that attitude is purposely cultivated by the management in an attempt to seem more European. Unfortunately, if that is the case, they do not exactly pull it off. While European bartenders may be more stand-offish than their more gregarious American counterparts (probably an understatement), it is more out of a sense of respect and propriety than unfriendliness. Moreover, European bartenders are invariably efficient and precise, while Hopleaf employees are not always so. Besides, this is America, not Belgium. In Europe, customers find overly familiar and friendly staff to be obtrusive and irritating, or even rude. People here (especially in the midwest) expect to be patronized, even if it is not sincere. By contrast, I used to work with a lot of Swiss who found Americans' casual familiarity with each other to be shocking, even in the case of co-workers, let alone strangers.
I disagree that because Hopleaf is primarily a bar, means service has to be unfriendly. In fact, most bars that serve food may not have the most efficient service (or the best food), but they are almost always friendly and welcoming. For example, compare and contrast Hopleaf to Kuma's. Both are crowded bars that serve similar food, but I have never found the staff at Kuma's to be anything less than charming, no matter how crowded the place got.
I am not a stickler for good service, and I tend to forgive a lot of missteps, but there is a difference between being inefficient and being inhospitable. Despite my forgiving nature, my love of Belgian beer and mussels and the fact that I live nearby, I have not set foot in Hopleaf in quite a while. It is not because the staff there has ever actually made me angry, but, at times, their attitude has made me feel unwelcome. Admitedly, that may be more perception than reality. If that business model works for the owners, then good for them. They seem to be doing just fine without my patronage. Nevertheless, if I am with a group of people who are intent on going to the Hopleaf, I would certainly not try to dissuade them, but given a choice, I would probably go elsewhere for a beer and some friendly conversation (especially at those inflated prices).
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d4v3 on November 27th, 2006, 11:10 am, edited 1 time in total.