riddlemay,
I read a shorter version of this story in
The New Yorker, and found it interesting from several perspectives, primarily as it relates how handy it is to use one's spouse as a foil when writing about food. We married folks take most of our meals with our beloved spouses, and we tend to talk about food when we eat. My opinions about food are frequently either reinforced by, or formed in opposition to, those of The Wife.
Years ago, I pitched a column to a local paper called "Dining with Dick and Dee Dee." The premise was that it would be written in dramatic dialogue format, and would dramatize a conversation between a couple who often go out to eat but don't agree on anything.
David "Still pitchin'" Hammond
"Don't you ever underestimate the power of a female." Bootsy Collins