This is a subject about which I (
obviously) have very mixed emotions. I do it, but I HATE to do it.
When we hit the French Laundry, I had the camera in my pocket or palmed at all times, and I doubt anybody had any idea. At the table next to us, however, with every course one woman at the table would pull out her massive five-pounder and walk around the table photographing every single dish with flash and neon green laser autofocus. It was horrible.
I intentionally picked a camera that was small enough to palm and with excellent low light capabilities so I wouldn't have to flash, and I immediately turned off everything that might draw attention... I turned off the flash, the shutter sound, the autofocus lamps, and I dropped the LCD to the lowest possible brightness. Obviously, if somebody looks at you they're going to see what you're doing. But if, in the course of simply enjoying their dinner, the next table's attention is drawn to your photo taking, my opinion is that you shouldn't be taking them. I understand the feeling that, well, you're paying for a service and you should be able to enjoy that service by taking photos. But I think people owe it to their fellow diners not to be distracting, and I think that absolutely includes flash photography. I've also heard the argument that it's no worse than X other distracting things that diners frequently do. True, but I don't think diners should be doing those other things either
Anyway, as somebody who does it a LOT, no, it absolutely should not be banned. But I think those choosing to do so should be very, very, VERY discreet about it... and while I realize it might be an unpopular opinion with some folks here, I think that absolutely includes flash.
Dominic Armato
Dining Critic
The Arizona Republic and
azcentral.com