M-Six -- I didn't think you were being too harsh on kids or parents, but I did wonder wether the context that Mike and I provided was lacking. We all experience the same kind of thing when visiting a (relatively) unfamiliar place.
I have little kids myself, and I think one of the great joys of parenthood in Chicago (and LA, NY, Miami, Toronto, etc. if that's where we are) is taking the children to an "ethnic" neigborhood for some shopping and a meal. But I'm still mortified if they go nuts, and will pull the plug when it happens. That said, certain cultures are remarkably indulgent with kids by Western standards, and said cultures also happen to have great restaurants where extended families tend to dine out often. In those places, my kids have a hard time standing out. Such neighborhoods make an especially good choice if you are worried about your kids, but maybe not so much if you don't want to hear kids yelling.
Last year, when one of the kids was three and my mother-in-law was on a long trip around China, the baby was convinced that we too had visited China by going to Chinatown. Kids are so naive.