Aaron Deacon wrote:dicksond wrote:what makes a place without a liquor license special?
The whole meal ends up $20-50 cheaper.
Part of the savings is on the markup, but part of it is also a certain "sunk cost" mentality in grabbing a bottle off the shelf at home that I don't mentally include in the meal cost.
Say you get dinner for two at TAC Quick for $30 including tax and tip. If they sold wine and you bought a bottle, you could easily add another $30 to the bill vs. maybe $10 if you bring your own. The difference between a $30 meal (with $10 paid weeks earlier) and a $60 meal is significant. And if you're a larger party with more people and more drinking, the price difference can be quite substantial.
I wouldn't really be comfortable bringing my own bottle to a place with a wine list unless it was particularly interesting, special, or rare, which is almost never the case.
You miss my point, but perhaps I get yours.
I almost always bring my own wine. That way I drink better and more economically. But I do understand that if your intention is to bring some inexpensive bottle you just picked up, the chance of a problem is much greater if the place has their own wine list. Me, I accumulate wines that may not cost much more than yours, but they have usually resided in my basement for some years, so they are older than the restaurant's (I have had some interesting exchanges at places where they had the same wine - strangely both times Chardonnays, one California, one Burgundy, on their list, so they objected. Once I got the Sommelier and pointed out my bottle was 5 years older than theirs, we were able to agree that it was not really the same wine, so I prevailed), and they almost always are more obscure, even if they may also be cheaper.
Anyway, I now officially get it. While one can save the same amount of money going to a purely BYOB or a place with a liquor license, and likely eat as well, there is a risk of a problem in the place with the liquor license if you are not careful about what you bring. Yup, that problem is real, though I choose to address it with the fallback position of buying a bottle off their list if I must (it happens to me once or twice a year), rather than avoiding certain restaurants. But the risk is real, and the more mainstream and newer your wine, the greater it gets.
Thanks Aaron. Conflict avoidance, with freedom to choose to bring whatever strikes your fancy with no worries. A BYOB does offer that. Maybe I just like the challenge, the conflict - I do, after all choose to be a referee and accept that abuse.
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