Michael Nagrant wrote:The nature of public Internet forums is that people can hide behind e-monikers and badmouth chefs, which, in a forum like LTH, a significant local tastemaker, has consequences... Folks who choose to go negative have a responsibility to use their real names, just as any journalist would. I'm an occasional poster to the forum, and I added a tagline with my real name almost six months ago, because I believe, even in an informal public space, you must be accountable.
Michael Nagrant wrote:The biggest issue I have with the thread is that these accusations are submitted by folks named "Gypsyboy" and "dddane." Like him or not, you know who Phil Vettel is and who he works for. The nature of public Internet forums is that people can hide behind e-monikers and badmouth chefs, which, in a forum like LTH, a significant local tastemaker, has consequences. Certainly Bayless can withstand baseless insults, but some small restauranteurs cannot. Folks who choose to go negative have a responsibility to use their real names, just as any journalist would. I'm an occasional poster to the forum, and I added a tagline with my real name almost six months ago, because I believe, even in an informal public space, you must be accountable.
Like him or not, you know who Phil Vettel is and who he works for.
Mike G wrote:1)Michael Nagrant wrote:The nature of public Internet forums is that people can hide behind e-monikers and badmouth chefs, which, in a forum like LTH, a significant local tastemaker, has consequences... Folks who choose to go negative have a responsibility to use their real names, just as any journalist would. I'm an occasional poster to the forum, and I added a tagline with my real name almost six months ago, because I believe, even in an informal public space, you must be accountable.
My response to that is that my real name-- one click away from any post, or less if you put two and two together-- doesn't particularly mean anything to people, it's Mike G+6000 posts that add up to an identity as far as any other user of this forum is concerned. To me the menace is not when a real person with 200 posts slams a place, but when someone does so in their first post-- that's when there's an ax to grind and we don't yet know what it is or who's really behind it. That's when the internet is being used anonymously and shadily to cause trouble or stab someone in the back-- and it does happen here, no question.
MikeG wrote:But I don't know, maybe I'm being naive about whether any of us have a meaningful and responsible critical identity, individually or in the aggregate; about whether the fact that I know someone is a real person means anything to you if you don't visit as often as I do; maybe it's all spray paint on the side of a building when you spout off on the Internet. Your thoughts?
Ramon wrote:I submit that despite using only my middle name, I am, and most regular posters are less anonymous than Phil Vettel.
-ramon
Ramon wrote:Like him or not, you know who Phil Vettel is and who he works for.
I don't know who Phil Vettel is or the full list of who he works for. And I believe he protects his identity closely, as he should.
I submit that despite using only my middle name, I am, and most regular posters are less anonymous than Phil Vettel.
-ramon
Ramon wrote:Like him or not, you know who Phil Vettel is and who he works for.
I don't know who Phil Vettel is or the full list of who he works for. And I believe he protects his identity closely, as he should.
I submit that despite using only my middle name, I am, and most regular posters are less anonymous than Phil Vettel.
-ramon
gleam wrote:Three things:
1. The author of a negative post has no obligation, nor should they, to use their real name.
gleam wrote:I don't think there's any real need to "man up" and use your real name.
eatchicago wrote:Furthermore, I don't know much about Vettel's personal eating habits, ... I know his opinions on restaurants from well-edited articles that he writes
Phil Vettel wrote:But if we want to be the restaurant town we think we are, we have to support the efforts of small but serious independent restaurants, from our Copperblues to our Aigre Doux.
That last phrase rhymes, by the way.
David Hammond wrote:I'm in agreement, as mentioned.
I must admit, though, that unless there's some psychological advantage to having a screen name that's different than your real name (and although I proposed one such advantage, I'm not sure it's valid), I don't really get the point of having a screen name that's different than your real name. I'm not against it, I'm not for it; I just don't get it.
nr706 wrote:eatchicago wrote:Furthermore, I don't know much about Vettel's personal eating habits, ... I know his opinions on restaurants from well-edited articles that he writes
This is well-edited?Phil Vettel wrote:But if we want to be the restaurant town we think we are, we have to support the efforts of small but serious independent restaurants, from our Copperblues to our Aigre Doux.
That last phrase rhymes, by the way.
Jonah wrote:From my prespective, Nagrant misses something when he calls LTH a "tastemaker."
David Hammond wrote:
I must admit, though, that unless there's some psychological advantage to having a screen name that's different than your real name (and although I proposed one such advantage, I'm not sure it's valid), I don't really get the point of having a screen name that's different than your real name. I'm not against it, I'm not for it; I just don't get it.
On one level, it's almost as though the whole "tradition" of screen names dates back to an earlier period of Internet history, when maybe people didn't trust online communication as much as they do now, or when companies like AOL almost seemed to actively promote having a screen name that was different than your actual name.
gleam wrote:David Hammond wrote:I'm in agreement, as mentioned.
I must admit, though, that unless there's some psychological advantage to having a screen name that's different than your real name (and although I proposed one such advantage, I'm not sure it's valid), I don't really get the point of having a screen name that's different than your real name. I'm not against it, I'm not for it; I just don't get it.
I misread your first paragraph, I didn't realize I was just disagreeing with Mike again.
For me, and I suspect for a lot of people here, it's just their entire identity. I've been known as gleam online for nearly 15 years, so it has become as much a part of me as my real name. Another example of nickname as identity: One of my friends calls one of our mutual friends by his nickname, because that's how they first met. It doesn't matter that they see each other in real life once every week or two. The nickname is a part of his identity, and it's a part of mine.
I suspect more people in the world know who "gleam" is than know who "Ed Fisher" is, but a very large number know both.
Michael Nagrant wrote:The biggest issue I have with the thread is that these accusations are submitted by folks named "Gypsyboy" and "dddane."
germuska wrote:Michael Nagrant wrote:The biggest issue I have with the thread is that these accusations are submitted by folks named "Gypsyboy" and "dddane."
Furthermore, because LTH as a community puts a great emphasis on face-to-face interactions, these people become "even more accountable."
Mike G wrote:what happens when we start to have power, given that we're soft of a battleship which anyone can come up to the deck and steer for a moment
dddane wrote:... hmm, maybe they'll take 20 seconds and google for all of us and post our pictures in the kitchen
David Hammond wrote: I don't really get the point of having a screen name that's different than your real name. I'm not against it, I'm not for it; I just don't get it.
threadkiller wrote:But it's the casual nonsense that I wish to avoid.