I took a group to Friendship a couple months back, after having enjoyed their delivery on one or two occasions. It was not a particularly adventurous group, and they were looking for someplace with more atmosphere than, say, Spring World. The first choice was Big Bowl; I offered Friendship as an alternative. I sent JiminLoganSquare a last-minute email soliciting suggestion, and PM'ed him the following account of our dinner. I think I was going to add a bit to it before posting to the board, but as usual when I make those sorts of plans, I forget. So here it is:
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It was perfect for the crowd. I just got a call, in fact, thanking me for the best Chinese food one of our friends had ever eaten. Very charming place, laid back, very well executed. For me, though, I'm not sure I'll go back (though I would certainly consider one of the East-West dinners). I think it was excellently prepared American Chinese food, but I'm coming to think I'm just not a huge fan of that food. And to be honest, I'm not sure I like more "authentic" Chinese, at least Cantonese, food either.
My Chinese food experience is really quite limited. Never ate it growing up, and it's never been much on my radar. After reading raves on Chowhound, I've started to branch out a bit, but I just find the vibrancy of flavors in Thai or Vietnamese food generally more rewarding. I did like the Szechwanese and Yunnanese food at Spring World, on a single visit. But three visits to this site's namesake, and a visit to Triple Crown have left me fairly indifferent toward Cantonese (with the exception of 'Little' Three Happiness' crispy skin chicken, which is phenomenal).
I feel similarly about Friendship, but again, I think it does what it does extremely well, and wouldn't hesitate to recommend it to someone I thought would enjoy it.
As far as are order, we planned to get the Dumpling Trio and Smoky Chicken Wings (or whatever). I was a bit discombobulated when two of the trio weren't available. When they said they only had pork dumplings, I switched gears and we split the sampler platter. I really enjoyed this all around, and regret that the other potstickers were unavailable. The pork potstickers were fantastic. I also really liked the wings (have you tried the spicy wings from Great Seas, by the way?). The BBQ rib was pretty good, and the egg roll was very good. I didn't like the cream cheese things quite as well.
My entree was the Red China, Kate got the Orange Chicken, others got the Hong Kong steak thing, sesame beef, chive flower chili beef, and chicken chow mein. Nothing here really excited me, though the Hong Kong steak was very well prepared. I think partly by this point, the edge on my hunger had been cut by the appetizers. My downfall with this sort of Chinese food is that a whole plate of any dish always seems like too much of that particular flavor. We probably (or at least I) would have enjoyed things more family style. Nonetheless, I appreciate the continued advocacy, and think for the group it was a perfect choice.
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With a couple more months of perspective, I have a few additional comments, well, maybe a different way of phrasing my thoughts, as this might be a little repetitive.
I do think the chef is probably talented and underrated. I would go back just for the appetizers, and I would also be interested in a group outing, eating family style, and with the kitchen given notice and a chance to shine.
The other interesting thing is that, maybe a month after this meal, Kate and I went to Opera. I thought Friendship compared surprisingly well. This speaks somewhat to my disappointment with Opera, but is mostly a hearty compliment to Friendship. Sure, Opera's address may be hipper and the interior a bit snazzier, but what came out of the kitchen at Friendship was barely, if at all, less impressive. The flavors of the sauces, the freshness of the ingredients seemed of similar quality to me. And Opera's a heck of a lot more expensive.
In a lot of ways, I think Opera and Friendship are trying to do a similar things...sort of take Chinese-American food a bit upscale and add some western accents. I'm not sure that I'm the target audience for this project, but if someone's going to undertake it, I think Friendship does an admirable job and, as I say, compares favorably to the pricier, popular Opera.
A note on Opera: again, not bad at all, but just not that impressive to me. I got the duck three ways, I don't recall what Kate got. We had some scallop appetizer in a passionfruit sauce, or some such, that was really tasty, but it was like 10 bucks for one scallop. That's the kind of value ratio that brings me down. Food was good enough, but even with a $50 coupon, it still seemed too pricey for what you get.
Cheers,
Aaron