I've been to Alinea many times and have always done the Tour. I think, especially for a single visit, the Tour is the way to go. If you've never done it, it will likely captivate you.
Courses are brought out in very short intervals. You never feel like you're languishing while waiting for the next one. If you order the wine pairings, you can split a single pairing between 2 people if you have concerns that it is too much wine. Generally, the Tour is about 24 courses and there are 15-17 wines, because some wines are paired with multiple courses. The standard wine pairings price out at about 2/3 the price of the Tour. The upgraded pairings are the same price as the Tour.
I agree with what Hammond posted above, however. I cannot foresee doing anything significant with an evening after leaving Alinea. Of course, I've always done the Tour and I am old. Maybe doing the Tasting allows for some after-meal activity, I cannot say.
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