HI,
I don't try to make waves when I visit a restaurant. I do often come informed from having read posts here or from other sources of information. It is this pre-knowledge that attracts the attention of the waitstaff.
Pre my on-line experiences by many, many years:
1. Walked into a Korean restaurant with my best friend Cathy in Sydney, Australia. Without looking at a menu, we order bulgogi plus some other dishes. The owner inquired if we had ever been to his restaurant before. We hadn't though we had been going to Cho Sun Ok in Chicago for years and knew the drill.
2. Walked into a restaurant in Tuba City, New Mexico at 10:30 PM. Without looking at a menu, I asked if they still offered Indian Tacos. I knew this was their specialty from Jane and Michael Stern's Roadfood books.
Since my on-line experiences:
1. Walked into The Cheese Stands Alone to inquire about the 6 year old Gouda I had read Mike G enjoyed on Chowhound. The owner gave me the once over, then said, "You must be one of those on-line people. It is not 6 but 4 year old Gouda. You all come in asking for the same thing!" It was probably the first time 'my cover' was blown via internet community.
2. I arrived just after closing to Ron's Cajun Connection in Utica, IL. I was being politely turned away until I inquired if I could buy Boudin. While I still couldn't get any dinner there, though I watched it being dumped in the garbage. I did get what I wanted as well as a nice conversation.
When I was there recently, Ron didn't remember me. However I got his attention when I inquired if the rice he was serving originated in Louisiana. He flat out asked, "Yes, but how do you know?" What little I knew was from listening to SurfinSapo waxing poetic over his prized gift of Rice Land popcorn rice. The rice served seem different and I was just simply guessing.
Any attention I draw is from my sincere interest in what they do. I do ask lots of questions, which I do under many other circumstances, too. People do love to talk about their business, I am an interested audience. Sometimes it is as simple as that.
Regards,