justjoan-
I've ordered country hams from Missouri for 15-17 years. They are tough to prepare, so go to a place that will pre-cook them for you. If you cook them yourself, you MUST submerge them COMPLETELY in water, and, since you basically get the back leg of a hog, that implies a REALLY big pot and six or eight hours of simmering. Then you cool, drain, skin, and coat with cloves and brown sugar and mustard and reheat, Then carve.
Sound like a lot of trouble? It's the most wonderful food in the world. I still remember when I first tasted it, visiting my father's family farm in Jackson, MO when I was about three years old. I decided within about two seconds I never wanted to eat anything else for the rest of my life.
I haven't achieved that goal, but I get an old, smoked, tough-as-leather country ham every Christmas. The tough part is solved by slicing it VERY thin. You should soak it for a couple of days in many changes of water if you want to reduce the saltiness.
Get it cooked, soak, and bake, YOu'll never go back. Find out about red-eye gravy, too.
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