Cynthia wrote:Nothing is more encyclopedic than Joy of Cooking -- 4500 recipes! However, as far as learning how to cook, it would be hard to find a better teacher than Jacques Pepin -- and Jacques Pepin's Complete Technigues has everything you need to know, from how to create a perfect baguette to how to make sauces to how to poach anything you'd want to poach to boning a chicken and beyond.
I would second Pepin as a good choice. For someone that is interested in the culinary arts, I would recommend that the first two books be, "La Methode" and "La Technique," both by Pepin. If you understand the methods and techniques, you can follow any recipe. IMO, Pepin is the best tv chef there is. He explains why, not just how, and once you know that, you won't need recipes. Plus, both books are a great reference to French / Western culinary practices.
After those two, I would opt on building a reference foundation with Julia Child, James Beard, etc. These will give you the "home cook" recipes that everyone loves. One of my favorites is the Silver Spoon, Italian cookbook. It's sort of the "Betty Crocker" of Italy. It's comprehensive and really easy. I also have Escoffier's "Ma Cuisine" - originally published in '34 but translated to English in '65 - I picked up at a second hand book store. It's a great book but I would have never been interested if it wasn't for Pepin's foundation books. Good luck.