Barry Foy wrote:But whereas the writer shows great familiarity with China, he may be a bit out of touch with North America. The fact is, the Yanks (and Canucks) eat the phony stuff because it appeals to them, and they absolutely wouldn't savor the genuine article. My Indiana parents, for example, are great devotees of the classic hangar-size, fat-butt, all-you-can-eat, oil-salt-glop-and-sugar "Chinese" buffet. And yet my Taiwanese wife and I wouldn't even dream of cooking actual Chinese fare when they visit (although Mom, trying to be a sport, often suggests it) because they simply wouldn't like it, or even understand it. It would mean nothing to them, and why should we spoil a perfectly good meal by having to deal with their uncomprehending looks?
There is an American living in China who interviews Chinese ex-pat Chefs in the United States. She claims the Chefs are frustrated by American's refusal to try authentic Chinese. My hand shot up once she said that. I told her it is very difficult to order authentic Chinese because the front of the house staff actively discourages it. It was clear from this discussion, there was a disconnect between the back and front of the house. The front house person takes all the grief if the food is not well received either in food returned without payment and possible tip clip.
This American from China suggested going to a Chinese restaurant where you see Chinese amongst the diners. Request to have your food prepared to Chinese-taste, which may still not happen the first few times. Eventually they will be convinced you want the real deal. There is still the risk you may not like everything prepared to Chinese taste, though smile through the meal and pay for it.
My friend's husband grew up in Hong Kong speaking both Cantonese and Mandarin. He also has to emphasize he wants his food prepared to Chinese-taste.
As much as I like authentic Chinese food, I also like well made Chinese American food, too. Charmingly in Chicago, you have a rare third option: Chinese food made to Indian tastes.
Regards,