My aunt and uncle, natives of Boston, will be celebrating their fortieth anniversary with our multigenerational Chicago-based family this spring. I have been asked to help find a venue.
From my aunt:
"We would like to have an informal family party for all generations. Our model is the place we used for my dad's 90th and 95th birthdays. The best barbecue place in Kansas City has a private function room. It wasn't elegant but the spirit was festive and the food was great! In Boston we would rent the private room at Woodman's, the clam shack that invented the fried clam, for lobster rolls and fried clams. The point is that the ambiance be casual and the food first-rate."
This will be a Friday or Saturday night dinner for 23 people, ranging in age from 3 to 89. All are gourmands.
Any suggestions? I haven't really given this much thought yet, but one of the private dining rooms at the Frontera Grill might fit the bill...