People seem so totally to have missed my point that I guess I'll have to take it step by step. Just as earlier generations unthinkingly applied ethnic slurs, anti-fat bigotry has become so ubiquitous in our society that people don't even realize they're engaging in it.
We don't quite have BINGO yet, but I suspect we'll get there if this thread goes on much longer.
Some people here might benefit from exposure to such concepts as
Health at Every Size,
size acceptance, fat rights and other issues explored at
Big Fat Blog and elsewhere in the
fatosphere.
It's easy to live in denial
That's fine that you're willing to take the argument that it's ok to be fat and eat whatever you want, but....
I don't buy the argument that being overweight is caused by some genetic condition. Sure, there can be genetic conditions that contribute to being overweight, but that doesn't explain the epidemic of obesity that is taking place in the US.
Translation: "You're delusional." Bingo card, B1, B3, N1 and N5.
love of food could lead any or all of us to an early death.
Translation: "Enjoying food makes you fat and fat people are unhealthy." G2.
I do see it as a kind of civic responsibility
Translation: "Fat people are too dim-witted to take care of themselves, so somebody has to tell them how." I4 and G5.
it's a problem not just for individuals but for the nation
Translation: "Fat people are a burden on society." B1 and I2.
reduce their portion sizes ... we'd see a decrease in obseity
Its a matter of knowing when to push oneself away from the table.
With images of food everywhere you look, it takes real concentration not to succumb to mindless eating
the way to lose weight is relatively simple. Calories out minus calories in resulting in a net loss will make anyone lose weight.
Translation: "Fat people have no self control." O5.
I hate that people who could maybe lose a few are lumped in the same health category as those whose weight actually poses a serious health threat.
Translation: "No Fatties In My Back Yard -- only people fatter than me are actually fat." N4.
I have learned how to continue to enjoy great food and also do it in a way, and with some tools, that contributes to better personal health
Translation: "I did it! So can you!" G1.
YourPalWill wrote:Your post seems to assume, without any explanation, that you believe that folks who look to lose or keep weight off are vapid, self absorbed types who aren't happy with themselves.
I assumed nothing of the kind. What I said was that I personally have no interest in the reading the intimate details of other people's health issues. I daresay some people reading this site may be facing hemorrhoidal ligation, colonoscopy and cholecystectomy, to name a few other procedures linked to food and digestion, and if folks want to post about their experiences, well, I wish everyone the best of health....
I apologize for venting, but regarding weight loss, I have heard it all before, in vast, ugly detail -- from Weight Watchers, the Grapefruit Diet, Atkins, Slim-Fast and Atkins again to Jack LaLanne, Jazzercize, Nautilus, Richard Simmons and Pilates to amphetamines, Ayds, phen-fen and Metabolife to high colonics, bariatric surgery and liposuction. Weight-loss efforts are so absorbing to those engaged in them that they talk about them constantly. I have done more than my share of listening to the trials, tribulations and self-righteous proselytizing of would-be weight losers and while I wish them all well, I don't care for repetitions. I have spent my life surrounded by fat people who have tried them all -- and I cannot name a single individual of significant size whose efforts led him or her to long-lasting slimness. I have gritted my teeth so hard and so often to keep in the I-told-you-so's that I needed root canal (not to burden you with my own health problems).
Had this thread limited itself to people's personal weight-loss efforts I would not have posted; I commented because it veered into public policy issues and narrow-minded characterizations of fat people.
YourPalWill wrote:I'm sorry that you don't appreciate my plight, LAZ. I have certainly heard your criticisms of my "fight" chronicle from other forum members that you have expressed it to over the past couple of years.
To my knowledge, I made exactly one comment about it, in a pm responding to a moderator who implied my post of a single link to a fat-activism site was meant as an attack on you. It is interesting to know how such private messages are passed along.
Will, when I said there was nothing personal, I meant it. My comments in this thread were not directed at you individually. I wish you well and sincerely hope that you beat the odds;* your great effort deserves long-term success.
* Bariatric surgery for obesity, ECRI; 2004: "Although morbidly obese patients lose a clinically significant amount of weight, ECRI found that three years after surgery, the typical patient is still obese. The analysis found that although patients' quality of life improved dramatically after bariatric surgery, the improvements did not typically bring them to a normal quality of life."