Hi,
Sri Lanka is an island nation off the southern tip of India or as my Dad just interjected, whose been there, is just 6 degrees north. It is mainly a Buddist country founded by Indians who fled there. The full moon is a holiday, so they have at least 13 holidays a year.
Hey Cath,
Your dad is spot-on - just off the southern tip of India, separated by the
fairly thin "Palk Strait" (it can be swum on occasoin by good swimmers,
just like the English Channel). Wasnt aware of the moon-holiday, but 13
holidays a year is miniscule, Iam sure there are a lot more (India has
a *lot* more - 2 Eids to placate the Muslim population, at least a few to
placate the Hindu population, Christmas and NY to placate the Christian
populatoin, Guru Nanak's Birthday to placate the Sikh population,
Buddha's Birthday to placate the Buddhist population and so on

Iam
sure Sri Lanka is similar.
Not sure I agree entirely with the "mainly Buddhist country founded by
Indians" thing though - Sri Lankans would violently disagree
Basically IMHO there are 2 major ethnic groups in SL - the Sinhalese
(indigenous I suppose, they are heavily Buddhist), and the Tamils
(who are immigrants from Tamil Nadu in India, a few centuries
ago, but who have held on to their language etc). This is quite well-known,
BTW, because of ethnic violence - the 1980s and 90s saw massive
amounts of terrorism in Sri Lanka, mostly by the LTTE (the "Liberation
Tigers of Tamil Eelam", fighting for their own independent Tamil homeland
in norther Sri Lanka - the majority of the Tamil population is based in
the north). Some people will tell you that the LTTE actually pioneered
suicide-bombers in world terrorism - it was a quite brutal "war", with
government reprisals etc. At least a couple of Sri Lankan presidents
were assasinated (and the former Indian Prime Minister too, seen by the
LTTE to have turned against them he was killed by a suicide-bomber while
campaigning for elections in India in the early 1990s. His widow could
have been Prime Minister this year, but chose to play king-maker instead).
Anyway, didnt mean to get on a political tangent. Basically, IMHO, there
are Sinhalese and Tamils - just the 2 broad groups. A lot of Buddhiests,
a lot of Hindus. But also a fair number of Muslims, and a small percentage
of Christians. The food will vary from group by group by a little
bit, obviously (for example the Buddhists will often be primarily vegetarians
due to religious reasons, the Hindus who are non-vegetarian will not
consume beef, the Muslims, mostly non-vegetarian, will not consume
pork and so on).
Since your Sri Lankan is a Catholic Priest, you don't have to worry about any Buddist religious dictate, though I imagine he is somewhat culturally Buddist simply from the environment he grew up in.
I would bring him spices from Devon Avenue around Western Avenue (west of that intersection there is Kamdar Plaza). What I learned from my other life, you can accomodate any local ingredients to fit your homefood desires as long as you have the right spices and herbs ... maybe ghee in his case. AFter you know him, then he will likely help you select what he wants. If he really is out in the middle of nowhere quite divorced from his culture, then I imagine any attempt to consider his homeland will touch his heart.
If your priest is like the Indians or Sri Lankan's I've met, they speak English at a very rapid pace. If he could be encouraged to slow down, it may help. Of course, this takes some diplomacy.
Whatdoyoumean theytalkfast?? Theydonothing ofthesort

Ive had some Sri Lankan food - not much, but some. Home-made it was,
I do recall rotis and curry, and lots of heat. Not sure Ive seen any SL
restaurants in Chicago however (though it does have a fair bit of a
SL population - I once saw some cricket players practicing in a park
in Skokie, sort of informally with a softball, and on asking found that they
were an all-Sri Lankan cricket side that played in a softball-cricket league in
Chicago, even travelling on occasion to Indiana etc
Basically, taking a quick google, that view is confirmed - that food in SL
can be heavily "curry-type". Chicken, Beef, Yellow-Fish, Eggplant,
Pineapple, Cashew etc - all curries (
http://asiarecipe.com/srimain.html).
And the curries are not "North Indian style" - they are far richer in
North India, with a fair bit of cream-base etc. These are much more
simoilar to South Indian curries - maybe Tamil Nadu or Kerala or Andhra
type curries. A fair few pepper dishes in general is my feeling.
If youre picking up food from Chicagoland... maybe te best bets will be
Sizzle India (which is Andhra style food, curries etc) at both Devon and
in Schaumburg. And also Malabar Catering (details of which Ive been
meaning to ask Zim - need to stop by there. Though there are some
details of that available at Chowhound I suppose). Maybe Udipi Palace
too, as third choice (unless this priest was from the Tamil region of SL).
Above are all my guesses, BTW - Id guess one shouldnt pick up any
curries from Pakistani or North-Indian spots. (or else one could just
take him curry powder, available in most grocery stores?)
Indian Sweets? Hmm. Ambala is the best around IMHO - but it *is* North
Indian. I suppose some of the sweets are universal enough however,
nowadays. But maybe something like "payasam" found on the dessert
menus of Udipi etc would be the best fit?
Oh, and if he wants to meet other Sri Lankans (Iam sure you'll find that
he's found a few already, actually

... the best spots are usually
universities. Always found several in universities, often some sort of
"Sri Lankan Students Association" too (or else ask under "South Asian
Students Association", and they'll lead you to em). A few years ago
(well, 1996 actually), Sri Lanka won the Cricket World Cup. I watched
the final of that tournament at an auditorium at the University of Chicago -
and there were probably 200-300 Sri Lankans there watching, some
with their families. They had also brought food for the lunch break -
and that was rotis and curry etc too. Not that all 300 were from the
UofC of course, but a fair few student-SLans there I believe).
Merry Christmas!
Ditto. And to the Sri Lankan priest in rural Minnesota (I fancy the one thing
he misses most about home at the moment is the warm winter, actually -
MN is just awful in that respect:-) An entirely different Christmas without
snow on the ground in general - heard someplace that the traditional
Christmas in New Zealand, for example, is a picnic on the beach. Sri Lanka,
being an island nation with some very nice beaches, may not be entirely
different - they have a far more "calypso culture" than India in a lot of
ways (or maybe its just the Sri Lankas Ive met who have a great fondness
for beer, I dunno
c8w