I'm sick of dishes coming out of restaurant kitchens that were salted for the lowest common denominator. I'm sick of carrying around a little snuff box full of Maldon. I'm especially sick of how bland almost every soup I get in a restaurant is.
So please, salt it the way you know it should be salted.
When my ex was going through culinary school, there was a meal prep at the end of the first semester that the students did for the head chefs. The chefs came in and put salt shakers on the table, exclaiming that the newbies never used enough of it and that they were in for a bland meal.
Sure enough, one of the biggest criticisms of the new kids was their use of (or lack thereof) salt. It's tricky - you can't take it out once its in, and there really is a small window until it becomes "salty."
However, it does amaze me how much i need to salt stuff from amateur cooks who are just afraid to
use it confidently.
I really think the chef should season all food as he/she sees fit. They are the ones back there prepping food day in day out - they probably had
some kind of input regarding what they are offering - and it's their job.
Most of the time i can imagine that this would work out well for most people. I think that, as a diner, if you're easily prone to thinking something is overly salted, its your responsibility to tell the server "easy on the salt." Its not the chef's responsibility to alter his/her preps by telepathically receiving the consumer's requests and it's quite arrogant, imo, that some people feel as if it should be salted to the lowest common denominator.
Personally, you should ease up on the salt, ecpecially in gravies and soups. There are any number of other spices and seasonings that can be added to give flavor to soups. Personally, I have reviewed studies on both sides of the hypertension issue, some espousing lower sodium. My take is that it is almost impossible NOT to get adequate sodium. Salt can be added at the time of service should the patron want it.
Nothing can truly substitute proper kosher salt use. I lived with a NO SODIUM roommate for a couple years, we ate many meals together. You're right - there is other stuff out there and it can be really great. But, it's an alternative, not a substitute.
Also, hypertension has nothing to do with how much a chef should salt his/her food. If someone is hypertensive, it's
their responsibility to request food the way it should be prepared or simply eat at home. You don't see chefs also reminding people to take their BP meds do you? Your health is your responsibility.
So, long winded, but yes - i am on the "salt it as you see fit" side of things.