mrbarolo wrote:Absolutely. I'm often nursing my last glass of red when the plates are cleared. Especially with a long multi-wine dinner. I happily hang onto the red straight through dessert and enjoy it ...
And, come to think of it, I've never been that crazy about dessert with dessert wines. I tend to find the combo redundant and cloying... I prefer dessert wine as dessert.
I fear I might be slipping and becoming far too agreeable but I can't disagree with myself and myself agrees with you on all the above points. Wine with sweets in the post-prandial mode is a perfect combination (wine with breakfast is good too but that's another matter). I, who do not especially have a sweet-tooth, sometimes love to have a dessert wine but then in lieu of an actual dessert.
I've also had Italians cluck their tongues and arch their dark eyebrows because I drink coffee with dessert. So American. I don't know whether it's the dessert of the coffee they feel is hurt by this, but I find the bitterness and roasted flavors accent a sweet dessert perfectly. I am resolutely non-continental in this regard. (I look to Antonius for the Old World rebuttal.)
tsk tsk tsk... beh, che posso dire?
No, in all seriousness, I hadn't ever really thought about this issue too much but in my family (i.e., chez père et mère), espresso comes out separately from dessert. After a big Italian meal, sometimes we have espresso (and digestifs, maybe also nuts, fruit) and then, when some room in the digestive tract has been found, dessert comes out. On other occasions, dessert is followed by the espresso. But then again, with Italian meals, an actual dessert is often not present. Chez nous, Amata Antoniusque, we usually don't drink coffee at night; only once in a while I break out my briki and have Greek coffee sans dessert.
For me, personally, I like espesso on its own (perhaps with a shot of Vecchia Romagna

) but coffee either American style or, better still, Northern European style and especially Belgian style served together with sweets is a nice combination. Indeed, the Belgian/Dutch/German/Scandinavian sweet meal, with different cakes and pies, demands coffee.
But espresso requires its own stage.
So then, I'm a swine, but a multicultural swine...
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Alle Nerven exzitiert von dem gewürzten Wein -- Anwandlung von Todesahndungen -- Doppeltgänger --
- aus dem Tagebuch E.T.A. Hoffmanns, 6. Januar 1804.
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Na sir is na seachain an cath.