Well thanks for (most of) the replies guys! I knew (most of you) would help
Looking at the LTH Forum reviews of Aruns, it sounds like it might actually be a good thing it didn't work out there.... so I checked out opentable and some reviews, and made reservations for Le Lan. She spent some time in Vietnam a couple months ago, hopefully she'll enjoy that place.
I've been to Bon soiree a number of times (I live pretty close there), great place, thats on our list of places to go... TAC I haven't been to but its definitely on my list, might be a little too casual for tonight though.
Thanks again for the help!
cheers
Rob