I don't know if I'd go so far as to categorize the different types of bars as "always" being a certain way, in terms of types of liquors carried, genres of music, unexplained crying, or an insouciant way with date-rape drugs. Mostly because I've been to many, many places that don't fit neatly into any of the categories mentioned upthread...and I've certainly never been slipped a mickey, nor do I know anyone who has.
Personally, I consider a
"bar" to be a drinking establishment where decor is not a huge priority...that said, some newer ones look snazzy & clean, while some older ones look like dirty dives that haven't had an interior designer come within a one-block radius during the entirety of their existence. There's often some form of jukebox (often one of those internet jukeboxes...I HATE those things), and usually one or more TVs. Most "bar" patrons can be found drinking beers, simple drinks ("<liquor> and <mixer>"-type stuff...rum and coke, gin and tonic, etc.), and shots.
The seating is generally comprised of some combination of bar stools and dining chairs. If it has a kitchen, the menu is comprised of classic "bar food": sandwiches, burgers, fried stuff. I guess what it comes down to is that the primary role of a true "bar" plays is to serve as a place to drink. Serving as a good place to watch sports is often a close second.
In my experience, a
"lounge" is a drinking establishment where decor is much more important. There tends to be a theme of some sort, which often looks like it was chosen & realized with the help of an interior design or architecture firm. Music also fits a theme, be it the aforementioned trip-hop or acid jazz, or rap/hip-hop, pop/top-40, or 80s/hair metal, and is either controlled by the staff via a behind-the-scenes stereo system, or by a DJ. There are generally no TVs. While some patrons at a "lounge" still drink beer and simple mixed drinks, many opt for wine, higher-end liquors (neat or on the rocks), or more elaborate cocktails.
The seating at a "lounge" is predominantly of the couch/"tuffet" variety (for "lounging", as the name implies), and there is usually a bar with more decorative/architectural bar stools than would be found in a "bar". If a "lounge" has a kitchen, the food is generally a bit more upscale: small plates for sharing, made of higher-end ingredients...items that might be found at a cocktail party. In my opinion, the primary role of a "lounge" is for patrons to enjoy the atmosphere (by enjoying the music, meeting people, taking dates, etc.) with drinking coming in a close second.
Even given my attempt to be as broad as possible in defining "bar" and "lounge", I think that some places don't fit perfectly into either category. One that comes to mind immediately is The Violet Hour, because it's beautifully-though-minimally decorated inside, has unique & decorative padded stools & seating, but is most definitely primarily focused on the drinks. On the other hand, something like Plan B in Wicker Park (which comes to mind because I was dragged there by my wife during March Madness), which I thought was very much so a lounge, except (much to my relief) it had TVs all over the place (including one in each booth), all tuned to sports.
As for the "real cocktail bar outside of TVH" question, I believe
this thread might be of assistance to you.
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Khaopaat on May 27th, 2009, 7:56 pm, edited 2 times in total.