Bill,
Sounds like you have a great trip planned. Even though were were in SF a month or two ago, I am unable to give you any new suggestions. We were mainly in San Raphael for a bas mitzvah and only got into the city a few times, though we did manage to eat at Tong Kian and Swan Oyster Depot. By the way, thanks again for introducing me to Swan or, as you called it, the Anti Fisherman's Wharf.
I did spend a pleasant afternoon in SF's Chinatown with one of my nieces, who lives in Madision, Wisconsin. She is an artist and it was interesting in the extreme to experience Chinatown from her perspective. She has a unique way of weaving stories simply by observing people who appear as if they've lived full, interesting lives. I'd venture to say this fellow we met while having congee is deserving of a full chapter, if not his own novel.
We also stopped in Caffe Trieste for a coffee
and Molinari just to poke around. Molinari is similar to one of our local Italian Delis, Riviera, in that you pick your bread, bring it to the counter and they make a sandwich to your specifications.
The one new place we ate, and would highly recommend if you are going to veer from your Chinese Quest, was
Town Hall. Opened by two chefs from Postrio they serve California upscale with a SF twist. (whatever the hell that means.

) Sonoma raised rabbit, Petaulma ducks, Anderson Valley grits, very local, very imaginative, though not off the charts, no mutton carpaccio or gefilte fish with raspberry coulis.
I recommended Town Hall to RevrendAndy a few weeks ago and he, and his wife, very much enjoyed their meal.
Have fun, eat well.
Enjoy,
Gary