We just had an excellent dinner at
Curate, right by the monument in downtown Asheville, NC. Not exactly a traditional regional meal, but easily the best tapas I've had in the US. Fantastic ingredients, spoke with one of the
owners working the front room. They try to source the finest products from Spain, the jamons were unbelievably good. We had the assorted plate which included generous helpings of iberico and bellota. Another memorable dish was the sausage with white beans, my guess is they finished the beans with a quick plunge in the deep fryer to add a slight crunch - delicious.
If you want something more traditional, we had fine bbq at Allen & Sons in Chapel Hill, NC which has been written up extensively here before. Someone mentioned a year or so ago that the sides were lacking, but they must have stepped up their game because everything we had was excellent. Pic is of large platter with fried okra, hush puppies, cole slaw and baked beans - yowza!!!! This gentleman has mastered his art, each bite tasted like essence of pig. It's only 5 miles off of I-40, easy to get to:

Allen & Son Pit Cooked Bar-B-Q
6203 Millhouse Road, Chapel Hill, NC 27516-8101
(919) 942-7576