ReddiWhipSmart wrote:Gonzo70 wrote: I actually prefer when a restaurant takes notes on me as it generally results in an enhanced dining experience; I have been frustrated at some high end venues where I have dined on multiple occasions where each visit I feel like it is my first time there.
I am always shocked when fine dining establishments fail to remember or acknowledge repeat guests. There's something deeply endearing to be greeted with "Welcome back" or "Good to see you again" upon returning to a restaurant. It's a simple thing that earns such goodwill.
My worst repeat visit was at Topolobampo. It was my third time having dinner there, second within three months and I had the same exact server as the previous visit. Not only was there no "welcome back" but I once again received a lengthy lecture from said server on what a tasting menu was and how I should not be intimidated by five courses. Furthermore I again received the lengthy lecture about what a wine pairing was and how I should not be scared off by five pours of wine as they are smaller than normal pours. The server was in full lecture mode; I wanted to relay that I had just consumed a nine course meal a couple days earlier at Grace, had another fourteen course meal later in the week at Elizabeth scheduled, and the only thing intimidating to me about a five course tasting menu is leaving hungry, but she was on autopilot and it was difficult to interject so I let her ramble again. I had been planning on ordering the tasting menu, but was frustrated by the end of her speech, so I told her that ordering five courses sounded crazy and I opted for a la carte.
On my fourth visit (I guess I am a glutton for punishment) I opted for lunch to avoid the tasting menu speech. Still no welcome back, but more gems such as when I ordered a Mezcal cocktail I was warned that it was "smoky" and I may want to order something else unless I happen to enjoy smoky drinks and was "taught" that mole negro "even has chocolate." I love the food at Topolo, but dining there can be so frustrating.
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