HI,
What I do know of German food, it is regional. What Ingrid may experience is related to where her parents came from and the food served there. So what you had may be representative of that locality.
My Opa would not eat spaetzle, he was a northern potato eater. My Oma was from the south where spaetzle is popular. This diversity of taste is why my household has a love-hate relationship with German food. We love what my Oma made or selected for us to eat, though not as enthusiastic for everything else.
I'm sure Ingrid will offer her opinion from her experiences.
Regards,