I've been in there twice, once after dinner on a weeknight (they had recently opened), and once on a Saturday afternoon a few weeks later. On neither occasion did I stay and hang around--I just bought some chocolates and took them with me, so I haven't spent enough time to get a great feel for the whole scene. Neither time was at all crowded.
My overwhelming impression is that they are targeting women. There's a lot of pink and chocolate brown in their decor, the seating areas appear very comfortable, and their menu includes a small chocolate fondue (not that men don't enjoy these things as well, but...). The chocolates are very cute, and they also have drinks and some little gift-type items for sale. Looked like a good place for a stop in on an un-raucous girls' night out to me. It had a more relaxed than not feel, but I don't think I'd take my shoes off and set up camp there or anything like that. Nice for an occasional treat.
Now, having written this, I went to find the url to their site:
http://www.ethelschocolate.com/. The front page says "Introducing a new place to chocolate and chitchat" with an illustration of two women sitting at a little table with drinks and candy, perhaps happily gossiping or describing a new purse. Setting aside my bitter contempt for the use of nouns as verbs, I'll say that sums it up.
Gentlemen, don't be scared off--it would probably be a great idea on a date, and I'm sure you're encouraged to go in and buy gifts. I just have a hard time picturing my husband and brother in there for any other reason, and they're both pretty standard guys.
So how was the chocolate? Oh yeah--I would say I was really knocked out by the lemon meringue (in dark chocolate), and I also enjoyed the orange blossom and key lime (all in dark, I believe). Not cheap (I can't remember how much--$2 or 3??), but if you bought 10 there was a deal to be had.