So we ended up at Laschet's. Advice here & from others steered me away from Laschet's as being, well, too bar-like, smoky crowded. So, though it had begun as my preference, I tried hard to get into Zia's, Don Juan (both closed) and Sabatino's which was totally unable to find a space to put a party of 14 at any time Christmas Eve with 4 weeks notice (totally understandable and expected).
Good thing.
Laschet's closed at 8 on Christmas Eve, so I reserved for 630. Of course, "closing" meant closing the door to new customers, so we did not feel at all hurried, just a little guilty, when we rolled out at 840, and while we were the last table leaving, the bar was still half full.
The room sparkled with strings of lights, a Christmas tree, the murals, and a full house of festive patrons. It was a welcoming warren of cheer.
We ordered one of everything. The hackpeter was excellent, as was the plain herring with onions, and the creamed herring. Cannot comment on the other appetizers ordered (Fried mushrooms & cheese sticks I think, plus maybe a couple of others), since I needed to focus on the good

stuff.
Dark & light beers on tap of many types, and the waiter walked us through the options. Is there normally a little discrepancy between the beer list and what they have? Seemed like the waiter kept directing us to alternatives, because they did not have what we requested. Did not note what beers I had other than that they were on tap and flavorful.
Veal Marengo was a light goulash, in flavor and color, with some mushrooms and little potatoes. Sort of a halfway point between Stroganoff and Goulash, to my tastes - nicely done. My daughter had the regular goulash, which was darker, richer, spicier and generally preferable for me. The well-browned spatzle and red cabbage were delightful, hell the service and the whole meal were. Very nice apple strudel, unimpressive apple crisp (too sweet, not crispy).
Our waiter, who to the amusement of the ladies at our table, was a slightly flirtatious Russell Crowe look-a-like (we asked him about this at the end of the meal, and he admitted we were not the first - he had met Russell somehow and thanked him since he won $500 for a gladiator get-up at a Halloween party recently, and he flirted nicely), did a good job, capped by the two rounds of complimentary apple schnapps at meal's end (the second round in place of coffee, which was gone at the end of the day).
I was anxious about how the family would react. We get together again Christmas day, and the feedback was enthusiastic - "comfortable, great food and beer, excellent atmosphere - just a great choice." Well-fed and praised, what more could one ask?
Thanks to all.
d
Feeling (south) loopy