Please pardon my ignorance, I had my first (that I recall) experience at a Korean BBQ last sunday. Prior to that a long gap and in the 1980s ate frequently at a Korean restaurant which was NOT cook at the table (and probably carry out more than dine in). I also, since 2000 and maybe earlier (don't recall) several times cooked bulgogi, kalbi and maybe a few other dishes at home (for pot lucks)
The present and prior experiences could qualify as completely different cuisines.
The recent BBQ I would describe as a slight (Korean) variation on a Japanese steak house, including "do it yourself" cooking. Lightly seasoned meat, grilled on gas with maybe a bit of charcoal (maybe at "better" restaurants all charcoal?). Dry, as in no gravy though the meat is juicy, eaten straight, just meat after meat. Plus banchan, which is completely new to me.
The earlier experience was highly seasoned (not necessarily just pepper/hot) seasoned, including ginger, garlic, green onion, daikon, etc, with a thickish gravy, and eaten on/with rice. I don't recall, maybe a little Kim Chee on the side, but nothing else.
So can I confirm this is a reasonable set of observations, so that I need not fear inviting a friend who doesn't like highly seasoned foods to come to a Korean BBQ restaurant with me? Are there Korean restaurants that are NOT BBQ like I remember, or has the one displaced the other?
--Carey aka underdog