dicksond wrote:One question - was the whole experience as restrained as it has been in the past? By restrained, I mean it all had a great feeling of propriety and tradition. Nothing out of place, challenging or jarring in any way? Sort of like a perfectly composed still life, beautifully done but with no unexpected elements, or surprising juxtapositions.
I wouldn't use the word "restrained" in that way, but there was really nothing "challenging or jarring", the way you would find at Moto, Alinea, or upstairs from Shanghai Terrace at Avenues. If that's what you're looking for, then you're probably not going to find it at Shanghai Terrace (or, frankly, most other excellent restaurants in town). They offer very good food and impeccable service in an upscale atmosphere. I guess it's up to you to decide whether or not you are "wowed" by excellent food that is exactly what you are expecting.
Personally, I thought Shanghai Terrace was very good indeed, but I did not leave with the feeling of "Wow, that was incredible! I can't wait to come back!" the way I do every time I return to restaurants I really love (e.g. one sixtyblue, Tallgrass, Oceanique). It was more along the lines of "That was excellent and enjoyable. Now I know what Shanghai Terrace is like, and I can take it off my list of places to try."
I like to think of restaurants in the following terms:
4 stars: Wow, Incredible (worth traveling long distances to dine)
3 stars: Very Good (worth recommending to others)
2 stars: Just Okay (worth visiting if you're in the neighborhood)
1 star: Disappointing, seriously flawed (worth forgetting)
0 stars: Dreadful (worth warning others away)
On this scale, I would rate Shanghai Terrace 3 stars. I tend not to return to places with 3 stars (unless they're extremely close to home), just because there are so many other places to try in the Chicago area.
To answer your question more directly - since you haven't already been dying to go back, then I would suggest not going back. For those who have not already been there, if it sounds like a place you would like to try, try it.
HTH