Cathy, I think we've talked (via the board) about meeting there some day. Maybe this year? It seems that the places with seating (tables and chairs) contain the shushers, so we stay away from them. We like to sit on the lawn west of the main seating area, west also of the path heading out to the carillon, close to the sensory garden, I think it is. There are usually only a few other folks sitting there and they often have kids with them. (I will say once
we were bothered by a family sitting there, though not by the kids, but by the dad who insisted on talking loudly about his views on profitable investing to his friends. And then once we brought my in-laws, who didn't seem to get the notion that you shouldn't shout for the cole slaw in the midst of the performance, so I'm sure
we bothered others then.) There you still have a nice view of the water, though probably not as clear a view (or an auditory perception) of the carillon. My two usually take off shortly after eating and run around in the foresty area just south of where we sit, which doesn't seem to bother anyone. I guess I just try to find a place where there are few other people, or else others with kids, who won't be bothered by a little quiet chatting.
ToniG