Off the top of my head....here are some thoughts on non-food aspects of the places we've discussed.
North Pond Cafe has great views of the city and a really unique setting (it's located in Lincoln Park...the park itself, not simply the neighborhood that bears the same name). Their website is
http://www.northpondrestaurant.com/index.cfm, and the website doesn't really give you a sense of the views.
Merlo on Maple (see above) is located in a very nice old brownstone. Tables are scattered in rooms of the old house, rather than many tables in one large room. That made for a more intimate dining experience.
Blackbird is intimate in the sense that you will sitting at practically the same table as your neighbor. More seriously, if want to go to Blackbird, when you make your reservation ask to be seated at a table near the western wall of the restaurant, or at least not along the eastern wall. The eastern wall has a row of tables that are very, very close to one another. Blackbird can be quite loud and crowded, but I think these effects are minimized if you are not on the eastern wall of the restaurant.
I haven't been to MK in a very long time. I'd be interested to know if anyone's been there recently, and what they thought. I thought of it just now because they have a small mezzanine that has some intimate, rounded booths.
Finally, I seem to remember Spring having a very nice, unique atmosphere. But it's been a while since I've been there.
Now that I think about it, so many of the three star places we throw around, those above plus many others, have the standard large room, tables arranged in rows that are reasonably close together, muted colors that are relaxing, but not too relaxing (with the exception of Mexican restaurants, which go for the splashy colors)...there's a great deal of variety in food, but perhaps there isn't much variety in other aspects of the experience. Anyways....Boopers, I hope you have a great time.
Boopers wrote:A quick addendum/question:
Which of these 3star(ish) restaurants has the most wonderful decor/service/extra-food aspects? A strange question, my apologies.