-a vanilla ice cream cone after a long day at the beach, still the most refreshing thing I've ever had
-my mother's chocolate cream pie, which makes everyone at the dinner table go silent on the first bite
-my first 'fancy' meal out, on a family vacation where I was allowed to have crabcakes with a mustardy hollandaise sauce. I think this is where I learned of contrasting textures, with the succulent crab, crispy edges, and rich sauce
-a warm tomato from the garden with salt on it
-coming home from college to my mom's potroast - after so many months of eating in the cafeteria, I opened the door to smell that and it is still my go-to comfort food
-orange-vanilla frappes - also my mom's work. When I was sick and finally feeling better, she would put vanilla ice cream, orange juice, and honey in a blender - it was a way to pack a lot of calories all at once, and it felt so good on my sore throat and empty belly
-my grandfather's homemade parker house rolls - the softest, butteryest thing in the world
-bread in Paris
-sushi outside the Tsukiji fish market in Tokyo
-cheese and wine in southern Spain
-lobster rolls and steamers on the coast in Boston - actually, steamers I got to have as a birthday dinner at home, somewhere in NY because my mom went searching for them. Those hot little briny critters dipped in melted butter....
-as I'm remembering all this, I am realizing how much food is connected to love; I mean I've always known this, but pairing favorite memories is so very attached to feeling cared for, being in good company, and being relaxed.