DML wrote:How about this question to help me decide if I want to spend a rare evening away from the twins: Is the place comfortable? Are we talking about a place like NoMi where I can settle in to enjoy a meal, or is it more like Blackbird where if I don't enjoy the food I am having a pretty bad evening [which is not to rip the food at Blackbird -- outstanding food, uncomfortably tight tables]
There are a lot of different restaurants, and different ways of evaluating restaurants. More specifically, in addition to food, you have decor, density/crowdedness, noise, etc. Here's how I would differentiate these places (all of which I've been to, and all of which have excellent food) and I'd like to add one more):
NoMi is much more of a luxury/splurge place, in many ways. It's in a luxury hotel, it has a great view out of Michigan Avenue out the big windows, it's significantly more expensive than these others (figure $150-225/person including moderate alcohol, tax, and tip, vs $75-125 for the others), and it is dressier (I was there several years ago on a weeknight for dinner and all the men wore jacket and tie; I don't know if that has changed at all). Yes, it's quieter and more spacious, too. I just don't compare it with these other places, but rather, as a step up the "food chain", more similar to places like Ambria and Les Nomades.
Blackbird is very crowded (tables close together) and rather noisy, as I recall (it's been a few years).
Aigre Doux is somewhat crowded and noisy, but not distractingly so, and not as bad as Blackbird.
one sixtyblue is much more spacious than Blackbird and Aigre Doux. Although it's not quiet the way NoMi is, it's not particularly noisy either.
If you're really looking for a quiet, luxurious experience, sure, you may be better off with NoMi or a similar "splurge" place. If you're looking for amazing food with a more moderate price tag than NoMi, and you want a more spacious, comfortable atmosphere, go to one sixtyblue. If you want some similarly outstanding food, and the density/crowdedness is not an issue for you, go to Blackbird or try Aigre Doux, especially if you've never been there.
When we have places that a lot of people really like (even if others don't), I like going there and trying it myself at least once before ruling it out.
Mike G wrote:(I'd start calling Schwa, myself.)
In all fairness, Schwa does not belong in the same category as Blackbird or Aigre Doux or one sixtyblue. For one thing, it's significantly more expensive (even considering wine at Schwa at your BYO cost), assuming you're not going crazy with the wine. For another, its food is more innovative. And the atmosphere is more free-form than conventional. Nothing wrong with any of those things, as long as that's what you're looking for, for whatever occasion you're considering. Personally, Schwa is the kind of place I only go once to try, whereas one sixtyblue and Aigre Doux are places I like to return to periodically.